At 7th grade I and my sister were away from my parents due to my dad's government job, we were differentiated from my taiba's children and snacks were not for us only for their children, washing our own dishes, clothes, and house chores was another enslavement for 2 years. At a small age, you are needed to be rooted in love, compassion, and understanding but mine was filled with insecurities, embarrassment, and guilt.
When I was in my 9th grade my dad had married another woman with my mom still being here, this was the devastating point in my life. I was teased a lot from my relations, friends, and family for that my dad had done such a disgraceful act. My world turned upside down at this stage, at the beginning, you feel like you wanna punch people in their face for showing that quirky smile and lies that everything is going to be okay but after a year it starts to be there with you and everything looks like normal. There were many days when I couldn't sleep for weeks seeing my mom alone and my dad and stepmom sleeping together it ripped me apart.
This was the turning point of my life when I started to distance with people and have very few quality friends. I never told anyone about my stepmom and stopped talking to my cousins and family relatives as well save some embarrassment. I started to learn swimming & skating in my 10th grade, did not speak to the people with less IQ, took cold showers, and still taking which healed my wounds deep inside or made me forget them. I started to practice stoicism, minimalism, rich dad's theory to become financially independent and mentally healthy. I started to self learn and make really wealthy friends in terms of knowledge and try to copy a few of their techniques which made me accomplish a lot of good grades in my academy as well as goals in my personal life. Going to hike, hill stations and nature was a source for my balance. I was all alone and I could clearly hear myself about what I want and what I need, this is all at the age of 16 where my habits were growing exponentially.
The real-life was harsh but after all the pain and suffering from childhood, it was nothing for me. After graduating in 2018 I used to send 22 CVs per day to different jobs and used to get rejections it became a routine. I used to analyze my mistakes and come ahead better in the future I landed my first job for 27k for RM and that day my sleep was uninterrupted but I did not join the company since I was sure I am capable of doing much more. I completed a course in data science and in search of a gold rush I had my first data analyst job for 15k salary.
You know there is this urge in you if you are from a poor background where you can't afford a sneaker, watch, bag, gadgets in my teenage childhood it made powerlessly. That is when my third job came, Byju's for 54k with incentives stays in 3-star hotels, cars with chauffeurs and it was dream come true. You evolve from a point and you explore a lot, expand your mental horizon. I made good money and was an HR now giving back to society. I am a fanatic of Suits and Harvey was my role model. I am still in the exploring mode of what I want and now I trade for myself and have plans of NGO's in the future.
When I was in my 9th grade my dad had married another woman with my mom still being here, this was the devastating point in my life. I was teased a lot from my relations, friends, and family for that my dad had done such a disgraceful act. My world turned upside down at this stage, at the beginning, you feel like you wanna punch people in their face for showing that quirky smile and lies that everything is going to be okay but after a year it starts to be there with you and everything looks like normal. There were many days when I couldn't sleep for weeks seeing my mom alone and my dad and stepmom sleeping together it ripped me apart.
This was the turning point of my life when I started to distance with people and have very few quality friends. I never told anyone about my stepmom and stopped talking to my cousins and family relatives as well save some embarrassment. I started to learn swimming & skating in my 10th grade, did not speak to the people with less IQ, took cold showers, and still taking which healed my wounds deep inside or made me forget them. I started to practice stoicism, minimalism, rich dad's theory to become financially independent and mentally healthy. I started to self learn and make really wealthy friends in terms of knowledge and try to copy a few of their techniques which made me accomplish a lot of good grades in my academy as well as goals in my personal life. Going to hike, hill stations and nature was a source for my balance. I was all alone and I could clearly hear myself about what I want and what I need, this is all at the age of 16 where my habits were growing exponentially.
The real-life was harsh but after all the pain and suffering from childhood, it was nothing for me. After graduating in 2018 I used to send 22 CVs per day to different jobs and used to get rejections it became a routine. I used to analyze my mistakes and come ahead better in the future I landed my first job for 27k for RM and that day my sleep was uninterrupted but I did not join the company since I was sure I am capable of doing much more. I completed a course in data science and in search of a gold rush I had my first data analyst job for 15k salary.
You know there is this urge in you if you are from a poor background where you can't afford a sneaker, watch, bag, gadgets in my teenage childhood it made powerlessly. That is when my third job came, Byju's for 54k with incentives stays in 3-star hotels, cars with chauffeurs and it was dream come true. You evolve from a point and you explore a lot, expand your mental horizon. I made good money and was an HR now giving back to society. I am a fanatic of Suits and Harvey was my role model. I am still in the exploring mode of what I want and now I trade for myself and have plans of NGO's in the future.
I would like to end it with for those who hustle, evolve, who keep going forward, who is stoic for us I say greatness is coming.
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